Love vs. Infatuation | |
What is the elusive thing called "Love" that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her Prince Charming is not real love. It is better known as "Infatuation", and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Enumerated here below are the differences. Find out if you are really in love and not just infatuated. What is Infatuation? Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the Emotions and Will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Gentlemen, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation. It is based totally on physical attraction; Often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus infatuation is mostly biological. lso remember; never tell a woman you love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and your "feelings" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love. What is Love? Now you understand what infatuation is, let us now go on to discuss about Love.
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Wednesday, September 9, 2009
love or infatuation ?
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Call ur Happiness....
Happiness... Well wats that?
To begin with it is not a fact that has a two-line definition to it. It is a echelon at which when you come closer to the facts of life, .... When this state is attained then your temporary phase of happiness arrives.
If U Say
Money is happiness
Love is Happiness
Ya u r rite...
Becoz...It is basically a personnel feeling and it can be triggered at different situations. Happiness is where there is no fear in your heart. Happiness is where you are on top of the world. Happiness could be where confidence flows. Happiness is peace of mind. It is a stage of not being yourself.
Happiness is across the sea, but indeed a click away..... It presides in everything but it is up to you how to find it.
If someone says that I am not Happy... I would say he is daaam fool... Even I was like that or he doesn't know what happiness is!
A famous saying...
"Finding happiness is like finding yourself. You don't find happiness, you make happiness. You choose happiness. Self-actualization is a process of discovering who you are, who you want to be and paving the way to happiness by doing what brings YOU the most meaning and contentment to your life over the long run."
How U can find that...
A simple example... "It was daaam boring for me to sit in the class ... ..I found my happiness in writing.... something for my blog during my class..hours.... :) "
You should discover happiness more and more till you are no more.
Of course there has to be this stage where innocence gives a shelter. If you fall into this category then happy equals sad hence everything is fine and you have nothing to attain on this road.
This topic is so vast like 'U'..u have to be discovered... urself...., I am sure I will be missing other prospective of happiness. It is all upon personnel choice and level of thinking. To conclude I would say that the key to this lock depends on what category you fall into and hope that everyone finds his or her own key.
pls run off ur comments.....
Becoz beautiful minds always have incredible thoughts............................................
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Beautiful Mind-
When My Mind is Still
When my mind is still and alone with the beating of my heart,
I remember things too easily forgotten:
The purity of early love,
The maturity of unselfish love that asks --
desires -- nothing but another's good,
The idealism that has persisted through all the tempest of life.
When my mind is still and alone with the beating of my heart,
I can find a quiet assurance, an inner peace, in the core of my being.
It can face the doubt, the loneliness, the anxiety,
Can accept these harsh realities and can even grow
Because of these challenges to my essential being.
When my mind is still and alone with the beating of my heart,
I can sense my basic humanity,
And then I know that all men and women are my brothers and sisters.
Nothing but my own fear and distrust can separate me from the love of friends.
If I can trust others, accept them, enjoy them,
Then my life shall surely be richer and more full.
If I can accept others, this will help them to be more truly themselves,
And they will be more able to accept me.
When my mind is still and alone with the beating of my heart,
I know how much life has given me:
The history of the race, friends and family,
The opportunity to work, the chance to build myself.
Then wells within me the urge to live more abundantly,
With greater trust and joy,
With more profound seriousness and earnest service,
And yet more calmly at the heart of life.
beautiful quotes from Paul Beattie
Inaugration for open minds
Inaugration- for open MINds
Ting Tong,
Hi this is my first attempt to post something for my blog ........ Inspired from bloggers my pal pai and aneev. Where i found creativity and thinking has no fooooooool stops.. In this BLOG you will read complete RuBBish ,non-sense, no essence un bearable,un acceptable, unsympathetic topics..... with so many Grammatical mistakes... from me.. (pls swallow and correct me)
We will discuss about so many BULL SHITS... Where u might not have even thought about it... My thoughts are purely absurd and awful... let it be politics, love, movies,a,b,c,d....... my only appeal is please run off ur comments .....
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